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On December 2, 1995, my life changed forever. That was the day
Michael passed away. He fought a courageous battle with APECED Syndrome.
Michael was 22 years old.
APECD, or Autoimmune Polyendocrinopathy-Candidiasis-Ectodermal
Dystrophy, is a rare genetic disease that causes the immune system
to attack vital organs.
Anthony, my youngest son, had also been diagnosed with APECED,
but he did not display the same symptoms as his brother. We were
optimistic that Anthony’s illness could be managed, and that
he would go on to live a normal, productive life. But while grieving
the loss of Michael, Anthony, at 21 years of age, also passed away
on March 18, 1997, just 16-months after Michael.
When I lost Anthony I did not know how I was going to live another
five minutes, let alone a lifetime.
Through the grace of God and the resiliency of the human spirit,
I found a way to carry on. Some people refer to me as a “barometer,”
measuring their own troubles against mine. In essence, they are
saying, “If he can survive such an intense tragedy and continue
leading a positive, productive life, then maybe I can find the strength
to do the same.”
Although my wounds are still painful, and the deaths of my two
sons will never be forgotten, I have learned to experience the beauty
and magic of life while “walking with a limp.” I hope
you will as well.
Daryl Branscombe
Author - Walking With A Limp
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Pain
in whatever form is a part of life. They say that the greatest
physical pains one can experience are childbirth and kidney
stones. The most emotional pain one can experience is the
loss of a child. When you double that emotional loss, the
pain is unbearable.
Pain and pleasure go hand
in hand. Think of a mother’s pain during childbirth,
then think of her pure pleasure as she holds her newborn.
Think of the pleasure of a cold glass of water after a day
of working in the hot summer sun.
This lesson is of no
help when you are in the depths of despair. However, pain
is part of life. Without it there would be less pleasure.
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